
From my experience in the pastorate, nothing seems to be more painful than personnel matters and personal criticism. Every leader faces it, and must have a plan to deal with it. I would like to suggest some biblical principles for dealing with criticism in a manner that glorifies God. My first principle is that when criticism comes, run to the Scriptures. When you receive the “anonymous letter” that wounds you, remember that God’s Word is like medicine. It heals us. It comforts us. It settles us. I get this idea mainly from Psalm 119. I have been trying to memorize this Psalm for about 9 months or so now. I hope to knock it out before January is over. I love this Psalm because it is about a young leader (v. 9; 99-100) who is dealing with affliction of various sorts. His method is one of prayerful meditation on the Word. Further, his desire is not just the Scriptures, but the author of Scripture, for he mentions the author in virtually every verse. In other words, we run to the Scriptures because the Scriptures get us to God. He is our refuge. Here are a few of the Psalms that demonstrate the need for us to run to the Word, when others are running you down:
23 Even though princes sit plotting against me,your servant will meditate on your statutes.24 Your testimonies are my delight;they are my counselors.
42 then shall I have an answer for him who taunts me,for I trust in your word.43 And take not the word of truth utterly out of my mouth,for my hope is in your rules.
46 I will also speak of your testimonies before kingsand shall not be put to shame,47 for I find my delight in your commandments,which I love.
51 The insolent utterly deride me,but I do not turn away from your law.
61 Though the cords of the wicked ensnare me,I do not forget your law.
69 The insolent smear me with lies,but with my whole heart I keep your precepts;70 their heart is unfeeling like fat,but I delight in your law.71 It is good for me that I was afflicted,that I might learn your statutes.72 The law of your mouth is better to methan thousands of gold and silver pieces.
78 Let the insolent be put to shame,because they have wronged me with falsehood;as for me, I will meditate on your precepts.
92 If your law had not been my delight,I would have perished in my affliction.
95 The wicked lie in wait to destroy me,but I consider your testimonies.
97 Oh how I love your law!It is my meditation all the day.98 Your commandment makes me wiser than my enemies,for it is ever with me.
161 Princes persecute me without cause,but my heart stands in awe of your words.